She has worked as a musician and actress and is considered a tough businesswoman who always cares about her image. With 80 million records sold, she is one of the most successful singers today. Special to him Jennifer Lopez He already had four failed marriages. However, it seems that J.Lo has learned from her many relationship mistakes.
“I cannot demand my happiness from others,” she said. Jennifer Lopez In her first interview after the breakup Ben Affleck firmly. “I must have happiness within myself.”
“We think: ‘I need someone to be whole and happy.’ But that's not true.”
According to his statements, this vision comes too late. Because Jennifer Lopez looks back on four failed marriages.
Jennifer Lopez's search for great happiness in love
From 1997 to 1998 he was a musician with a bartender Ojani Noa From 2001 to 2003 with the dancer Chris Judd married. In the first decade of the twentieth century, she got engaged Ben Affleck. The relationship dominated the popular press at the time, but it did not end at the altar, but rather in separation. In 2004, Lopez married the singer Mark AnthonyIt worked well for ten years. They are the parents of twins whatever and Top.
After that, it appeared as if Lopez was dating the former baseball player Alex Rodriguez Be happy. In April 2021, after persistent separation rumors, the two announced that they had broken off their engagement. Shortly thereafter, Lopez became close to her ex-boyfriend Ben Affleck again. But this time it didn't work out either: just two years after the wedding, Jennifer Lopez filed for divorce from the “Batman” star.
Now she was alone again. This is not an easy thing for her, as she said in her interview interviewThe magazine notes.
Lopez: Breakup was 'exactly what I needed'
She admitted in an interview that being single is “new territory” for her Nikki Glaser. So be it “Lonely, unknown, scary and sad.” She is a “romantic” who “likes to be in relationships and grow old with someone.” However, she now realizes that she can also be happy on her own.
Two months after filing for divorce from the actor, Lopez explained that she did not regret her decision “for one second.” The 55-year-old singer explained that the breakup was “exactly what she needed.”
The fourth divorce seems to be a bitter lesson for the artist.
“You should have known that sooner.”
“I say to myself, ‘Thank you, God.’ I’m sorry it took so long, I’m sorry you had to do this to me so many times.
J.Lo compares her recent experience to ““She was hit hard in the head with a sledgehammer or as if a house had collapsed on top of her.”
Today, it seems that the singer can't help but laugh at the “romantic” way of thinking she used to display. “Old Jennifer” Anyone who still wants these things is a “stupid bitch.” But she “finally” learned her lesson. “It only took 30 years,” she joked, although she doesn't think she's “figured it all out” yet.
Unexpectedly honest words from a music star, who otherwise values a flawless image.
The split from Affleck was reported last September It will require more of her than the American public thinks. The pop star was said to welcome any advice that could help her salvage her tarnished reputation. “She is open to listening to the new voices of those around her,” she was quoted as saying. Page six An insider from the actress and singer's environment. “She needs advice from some new people to add a new layer.”
When she canceled her planned summer tour this year, J.Lo said she didn't“She takes time to be with her children, family and close friends.”
The singer's environment has always encouraged her to focus on herself. Those close to the superstar singer are said to be fed up with her chaotic life, a source told her in September Daily Mail: “After four failed marriages, her friends think she should look inward and focus on herself instead of what others expect of her to finally know who she is and what she wants from her future.”
Looks like Jennifer Lopez took some honest advice.
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